Mistakes Ladies Make When They are Close to a Man

The one mistake ladies make is believing that any guy that they are close to, who is fond of them is a boyfriend or a husband material.

The Mistake of Assumption

A guy meets a lady and asks her on a date. Within two months, they had gone on 10 dates.

By the next  months, she has spent four nights at his place. This means, she likes him and will always make out time to treat him well.

Now it is very normal that all her friends officially knows that this cool guy is her boyfriend,

This lady heard a story about how her guy cheated but she didn't believe it because she is always with her "boyfriend" and they spend enough time together, She can go visit him anytime she wants and he is cool with it.

One day, Mr cool guy breaks the news that he is getting married to someone else. Girlfriend gets heart broken and devastated. She complained about how she gave him everything, did every thing for him, loved him so much and cannot believe he would leave her for some one else.

Truth About Men's Attitude in Close Friendships

Girl friend, the truth is;
This guy never asked you to be his girl friend but you assumed you are because of how close you guys where.
He never said I want us to get married, lets see if we can work it out but you assumed that since you have given him all the wife material things, he wouldn't look else where.

These guys know what they are doing, They feel they know you too much not to marry you.

After all, you have always made yourself readily available and any other guy can be in their shoes.

They know you love them but they love someone else

One common thing is that after he gets married, he starts to call and talk about how much he missed you.

Build More Confidence

Ladies, stop assuming you have a boy friend when he has never asked to be one.
If you guys are getting too close, openly talk about where your friendship is going and what he wants from it. Even if his answers hurt, walk away. It is better than the pain that will come later. Do not think that you can impress him to change his mind.

Leave that distraction of a guy alone so that you create a way for true love.

When it comes, let him love you. Please him, if you like him but don't show him that you are head over heels if you love him.
Even when the wrong guy loves you more, you will appreciate it in the long run.